it was evening. 7 pm. Dhaula kuana (Delhi) in that time when i was doing my masters, 2001 was not safe for girls. I had faced events of eveteasing and had held collars of bastards who would try to whisper things in your ears or would try to grope you. Police intervention was there but it was a scary place to be in the evenings.
I had come from work and was stranded in an area only which was only 5 mts (by auto) and 10-15 mts (by walk) away from my hostel. I had to report to hostel by 7:30 pm or else doors would be locked and warden would be updated of my late coming!
I was scared and tired. i tried stopping so many autos but none of them agreed to drop me to such a short distance. the road to the hostel was the scariest road. lonely and dark. people would stop cars or they would actually approach you if you were all alone. since where i was standing was flooded with students' PG it was a little safe. i did not want to take a chance with walking. so i tried and tried. but failed
then he approached me from the crowded, young, busy, unaware population there. he was drunk!!! he belonged to either brazil or some other country and was a student who was staying in that area. i was scared. people approach you for stupid things like "will you go out with me" on those roads....
he asked me what was wrong with me and i burst into tears... i was crying... i told him how i HAD to be in hostel before 7:30 pm ... and no auto was stopping ... i was stuck ..
he came near me and kept his hand on my head!!! he was unstable and i was scared... oh shit....
he said in his accented tone and broken english - "you my sister, i make sure you reach hostel.. i make sure.." i was shocked!!!
this drunk guy, who could not even walk properly crossed the road and waved frantically to autos threatening them to take me to hostel.. finally his friend also arrived and they managed to stop an auto...
he gave me his flat address .. then he told the auto wala bhaiya that i had to be dropped safely , that if he would mess up he would thrash him up ... he asked me to let warden talk to him if she said anything to me... i was speechless...
he then told me to move on... .
i don't know where he is... don't know who he was ... but unknown to him he has become part of my treasured memories...
whenever i am sad, lonely , disillusioned .. he crosses my mind.... i have no words to express what i feel for him....the immense respect cannot be put in words....i wish life granted him the bestest.. at least today i send my blessings to him...
he was drunk... and he made me feel the safest that day .. .i dropped all my stereotypes on drinking after i met him...
I had come from work and was stranded in an area only which was only 5 mts (by auto) and 10-15 mts (by walk) away from my hostel. I had to report to hostel by 7:30 pm or else doors would be locked and warden would be updated of my late coming!
I was scared and tired. i tried stopping so many autos but none of them agreed to drop me to such a short distance. the road to the hostel was the scariest road. lonely and dark. people would stop cars or they would actually approach you if you were all alone. since where i was standing was flooded with students' PG it was a little safe. i did not want to take a chance with walking. so i tried and tried. but failed
then he approached me from the crowded, young, busy, unaware population there. he was drunk!!! he belonged to either brazil or some other country and was a student who was staying in that area. i was scared. people approach you for stupid things like "will you go out with me" on those roads....
he asked me what was wrong with me and i burst into tears... i was crying... i told him how i HAD to be in hostel before 7:30 pm ... and no auto was stopping ... i was stuck ..
he came near me and kept his hand on my head!!! he was unstable and i was scared... oh shit....
he said in his accented tone and broken english - "you my sister, i make sure you reach hostel.. i make sure.." i was shocked!!!
this drunk guy, who could not even walk properly crossed the road and waved frantically to autos threatening them to take me to hostel.. finally his friend also arrived and they managed to stop an auto...
he gave me his flat address .. then he told the auto wala bhaiya that i had to be dropped safely , that if he would mess up he would thrash him up ... he asked me to let warden talk to him if she said anything to me... i was speechless...
he then told me to move on... .
i don't know where he is... don't know who he was ... but unknown to him he has become part of my treasured memories...
whenever i am sad, lonely , disillusioned .. he crosses my mind.... i have no words to express what i feel for him....the immense respect cannot be put in words....i wish life granted him the bestest.. at least today i send my blessings to him...
he was drunk... and he made me feel the safest that day .. .i dropped all my stereotypes on drinking after i met him...


An excellent write and equally good to read.
ReplyDeleteYvonne.
this is a beautiful post ! I'm happy to read that nothing went wrong for you that day !
ReplyDeleteBest wishes !
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We never know when we will be blessed by the kindness of a stranger .... What could have been a nightmare for you is a lovely memory to treasure :-) This was a nice story with a happy ending!
ReplyDeleteIt is good to hear from you. I wondered for long about why you didn't reply and whether you were okay.
ReplyDeleteWow. Amazing story!
ReplyDeleteBig Secret Blog girlie... i am not able to send you mails.. or enter your blog... i don't know how to communicate with you :( ..... hope your exams went well....
ReplyDeleteThat is a nice memory and he was nice, even when drinking.
ReplyDeleteIf drunk men would be as gentlemen as that stranger then I would have nothing againsts drunk men.
ReplyDeleteIt's nice though that one stranger and drunk at the same time shown good example. I am wishing the best of the best whereever he is right now.
...goes to show that you can never judge a book by its cover, regardless of the his curse.
ReplyDeleteWell written:)
EL
God does get drunk at times...but i love him nonetheless!!!
ReplyDeletei jus dropped my stereotypes as well...
n at times even i have such angels sent to me...
god bless you god :)
Shows how a foreigner took control of a situation. He should be teaching in a management instt :-p
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry I missed this. It is just a beautiful story and a true moral, "Never judge a book by it's cover." I don't believe in stereotypes, just people.
ReplyDeleteI'm totally glad you are back to reading and commenting, I for one missed you my friend. :)
Jules @ Trying To Get Over The Rainbow
a lovely story, my dear!
ReplyDeleteThe Lord works through many different people. That time was some that had a bit much but he took care of you and you got home safe. That is an excellent memory. Good prayers to your rescurer.
ReplyDeleteTake care and that you for stopping by. Blessing my friend.
So glad you were safe that day. Glad to see you are back and writing again. Missed you.
ReplyDeleteWow, what a story and so very, very glad that it ended up having a happy & safe ending for you my friend!! I know what you mean about changing our opinions about someone and being so surprised with them and ourselves. :-) I loved this. Great story!!
ReplyDeleteHave a wonderful new week!
Hugs,
Coreen XOXO
I loved this. I did not realize the drunk man was going to be a friend. It's so easy to judge, isn't it. As soon as I read the title, I immediately assumed something bad had been done to you by a drunk man. Glad you were safe in his care. Hope he, himself, is still safe.
ReplyDeleteAmazing story! His heart was in the right place when the sober people around you didn't have any!
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